Jon Gosselin Says He āWouldnāt Be Able to Pickā Out Daughters Mady and Cara If He Saw Them on the Street
Jon Gosselin Says He āWouldnāt Be Able to Pickā Out Daughters Mady and Cara If He Saw Them on the Street

Kimberlee SpeakmanWed, November 4, 2026 at 5:47 AM UTC
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Jon Gosselin; Cara Gosselin, Mady Gosselin.Credit: Amanda Edwards/Getty; Michael Loccisano/Getty (2) -
Jon Gosselin claimed in a recent podcast that he wouldnāt be able to āpickā out his twin daughters Madelyn āMadyā and Cara Gosselin if he saw them on the street
He shared that he has been estranged from the twins since they were 13 and knows little about their current lives
The celebrity DJ also noted that he does not āblameā his kids for the estrangement
Jon Gosselin says he doesnāt know his twin daughters Madelyn āMadyā and Cara Gosselin.
The Jon & Kate Plus 8 alum, 49, said on the Nov. 3 episode of the Legally Goff podcast that he has been out of his daughtersā lives for so long that he wouldnāt recognize them if he happened to run into them on the street.
āI havenāt seen Mady and Cara in like forever,ā Jon revealed. āYeah, I wouldnāt be able to pick them out in the street. I have pictures of them, but I still wouldnāt be able to pick them out on the street. Thatās how much I havenāt seen them.ā
āI missed graduations. I missed proms. I was alienated from all that stuff,ā he continued. āI donāt know anything about my twins, if they have boyfriends or girlfriends, or what favorite color they have now, if they drive a car. I know nothing.ā

Kate Gosselin and her daughters Mady and Cara on June 11, 2019 in New York City.Credit: MediaPunch/Bauer-Griffin/GC Images
Jon shares twins Mady and Cara ā the eldest of the Gosselin siblings ā with ex-wife Kate Gosselin, 51, whom he divorced in December 2009. He also shares sextuplets Alexis, Hannah, Aaden, Collin, Leah and Joel with her.
The celebrity DJ claimed he has been āalienatedā from Mady and Caraās lives since they were 13-years-old and has heard āsilenceā from them both ever since.
āIāve never heard their voice, like one day I was an all-active everyday parent and itās upsetting I know and people are going to hate hearing this, but you know I was just cut out of their lives,ā he said.
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Jon also said that he believed that his ex and TLC, the network which aired their show, have played a role in his estrangement from his eldest daughters.
āThey, I guess, believe the narrative of TLC that Iām a sātbag and that I donāt want to see them and just like Kate told Colin, āI donāt want to see himā¦ā And I believe thatās exactly what she said to Mady and Cara and thatās their mother and they believed her and that was it.ā
āThe same thing with the other four. They just said, you know, they live in fear, and I donāt blame them. And I donāt blame them now,ā he added.
He also lamented the estrangement of his son Collin from the rest of his siblings. Collin previously shared in a TikTok Live in August 2025 that he doesnāt ātalkā to his siblings, though he very much wishes āthat we did and that they knew who I actually was because we donāt know each other at all.ā
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ā[Collin] called once from the institution [and] talked to Mady and got hung up on and never talked to them again. Thatās some scary sāt,ā Jon said. āI talk to my brother three times a day and my older brother maybe twice a week. I talk to my mom, I call her at like 8 a.m. every single day and if I miss, she calls me, like something happened.ā
He continued, āSo, and these are womb mates. These are kids that were in the womb together. And they just literally alienated and shunned my son. And have no explanation. Itās gut wrenching.ā
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